Some thing you Need To Do:
1.) Maintain a great appearance.
It is all too easy to stop paying attention to your appearance when you have a husband, but maintaining attraction is a key element of a long-term relationship.
While it was important to keep a good appearance during dating/courtship, it is even more important in a married relationship, or any committed relationship.
Try to spend some time each day making yourself look pretty, wearing clothes that delight him. If your husband oftentimes tells you he likes when you wear a certain garment or outfit, by all means, take the hint.
Good grooming and hygiene are vital, so keep yourself neat and feminine by having a pretty hair cut, nice nails and smooth legs/underarms etc.. (No man wants to be married to a beast.)
2.)Tidy up the house!
make your home a clean and pleasant place to live in.
3.) Find a balance in arguments, but avoid them if possible.
Nagging never works, and will only serve to irritate your spouse. Not speaking your mind is just as bad.
Husbands are not tyrannic creatures:
if you find a balance in arguments, and take turns to speak, things will surely improve. And try not to raise your voice or belittle your spouse!
4.) Love your spouse for who he is.
Don’t criticize him in an unconstructive, cruel, or nagging way.
Whatever your image of the ‘ideal’ man may be, everyone is unique in his own ways, so try to respect that.
Before you try to improve others, try to improve yourself first. If you find things disagreeable about him, let him know in a mature, sensible and loving way: chances are that he will agree on some things and/or explain others, plus it will build trust between both of you and save unnecessary conflicts.
5.) Let him take control.
of certain situations, more so if they are extra personal situations like choosing his hobby, his meals, his clothes, etc.
When you are home a lot, it can be easy to want to take control of everything your husband does in the home, but this may not be your husband’s preference.
It’s all right if you want to give him your input in a polite way, more so if he asked you. Otherwise, let him have his space, just as you’d want yours. He’s a separate human being from you; always remember that.
6.) Don’t gossip.
Gossiping is in bad taste, no matter how fashionable it might look.
Talking behind people’s backs will make you seem untrustworthy and if your husband finds out he will have every right to question if you have been talking about him behind his back as well.
Always be respectful, so people will treat you (and your husband!) with respect.
